BDSM Collars

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A sexy collar is an accessory which has earned the hearts of people all over the fashion and entertainment industry (cue: Ariana Grande) but for the BDSM community, a human collar means something greater than just a tight necklace around the neck. It does not come to any surprise that the crowd favorite accessory has a sexual implication whereas most fashion items, like high heels, can be kinky if you want it to be.

In contrast to the cute and adorable dog collars, a kink collar is anything but. Take the innocence out of the stylish everyday choker and you have yourself a bdsm collar. In fashion, the collar is used as accents to tie in an outfit with a low neckline or an off-shoulder cut top. On the other hands, in Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism, a sub collar is a symbol of its power dynamics.

Some might enjoy it purely for its aesthetics, but others take pleasure on what it symbolizes. This collision of sex and fashion results in sexy collars you can wear for days on end – or until your partner says so.

BDSM Collar 101: Learn the Meaning of This Important Kink Accessory

Let’s scratch the surface on this infamous accessory. Some may absorb it as fresh info but a lot won’t find these shocking. BDSM practices have stopped being underground ever since the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy has made it to the public’s eyes. Setting the scene and the sexual mood is a big chunk in a D/s relationship. In this case, a dominant is the one in control and to mark their ‘territory’, a bdsm leash is put around the submissive’s neck. It is much like an engagement band or a binding business contract.

We won’t get into detail how one would earn their sub collar, but this we know – having it around your neck would send a message that you are finally passing on to a new level of relationship. More specifically: ownership. For the dominant, it represents taking full responsibility while for the submissive, it gives means giving their full selves freely and willingly.

Looking back, a collar was not always viewed sexually. The origin of the collar could be dated back from cultures in history wherein slaves were compelled to wear as a sign of surrender respect towards their masters. While in those days, the people who were wearing it were itching to get out; nowadays, people are just clamoring to get their hands on one!

Some BDSM Collar Styles

The bondage collar might seem to be simple. Collaring goes beyond just a circular thing around a submissive’s neck. Some go as far as switching up the collars depending on the level of the relationship. A day collar will pass off as a regular fashion accessory. Parallel to its name, it usually is worn during the day. It is worn like a locket or a pendant that has a kinky secret that only the two of you know the meaning to. Most bdsm day collars are simpler and more discreet in design and form, made not to attract too much questions and insinuations. A spiked collar is not as subtle as a day collar so it is often used in private. A lot of slave collars feature an O-ring which is also a distinctive symbol in the bdsm world. The standard material of a bdsm choker is leather but you can also find chained, velvet and even metal materials. Submissive collars come in different designs, it stretches out to the most unique and creative designs such as fur features, heart rings instead of o-rings and even letter trinkets that spell out some erotic words. Intrigued? See it for yourself and browse through Julbie.com’s collection of slave collars.

Do not settle for the spark when you can have the whole damn fire.

Dominatrix or completely vanilla, you can enjoy the beauty of a bdsm collar. We cannot deny that it is truly flattering as it is secured around a highly erogenous zone: the neck. It highlights and can even elongate it making you more attractive.

Collars, like our dearest heels, are objects of fetishism. As pretty and popular this accessory seems, its significance is something only you and your partner can uniquely express. Collars provide a tangible reminder of the pain and pleasure for all the sex freaks out there. Choose one from our steamy and naughty collection specially curated for all those hungry for a kink.